♥ Harry Potter and the Quality of Books for Boys — 18 Comments

  1. My son is still young (20 months), but he loves to read with me. I hate to even think about what will happen he’s older, but I thank you for giving me a heads up on the book situation. In having a son, I have realized many things… one of which is an absolute bias towards girls in everything from clothing to opportunities. My biggest frustration (so far): when I have to shop for something nice for my son to wear, and I see millions of pink frilly dresses and only play clothes for boys. So, apparently boys never go anywhere nice, or never have to “dress up”. Did/do you have this problem too? I guess now I will have to worry about a book bias… maybe us moms of sons need to get together to bring this to someone’s attention… Thanks for this great post. 🙂

  2. I agree with most of what you wrote here, and am glad to see that you aren’t trying to get Harry Potter pulled from the shelves. But I would just like to say that Harry Potter does not teach about Wicca. No Wiccan would think for a moment that the wave of a wand and a single magic word would actually make something visible happen immediately. The “spells” listed in HP are all simple Latin words (for instance engorgio is simply Latin for engorge – nothing magic about it). In this sense HP is more akin to a magician doing conjuring – abracadabra and look, a white rabbit!

    The wizard world in which it mostly takes place is as fantasy-based as Narnia or LOTR – step through the magic wardrobe or magic pub door and find yourself somewhere quite different – and there are good wizards in LOTR too yet no one suggests that they teach Wicca. I’m not a huge fan of the films but have read all the books. (Narnia, LOTR and HP).

    Having said all that – which you have probably heard before – I agree that great Christian writings are hard to find. There is one set that I grew up with (I’m 30), by a British author called John Houghton. I believe they are now known as the Oswain tales. Your boys may be too old for them, I’d say age range 8 to 12. These books are stil in the fantasy range though. Perhaps you’ve also heard of Stephen Lawhead? His characters are always followers of the One True God (whether in our world or in one of his own devising). I personally like the Merlin series, and there are books about St Patrick and a monk travelling to Constantinople too (“Patrick” and “Byzantium”, respectively).

    Hope you find something good in there.

  3. It’s so important to draw attention to reading, and attract reluctant readers to it,especially boys.

    I grew up as a reluctant reader, in spite of the fact that my father published over 70 books. Now I write character building, action-adventures & mysteries, especially for tween boys, that avid boy readers and girls enjoy just as much.

    My blog, Books for Boys is dedicated to drawing attention to the importance of reading.

    Keep up your good work.

    Max Elliot Anderson

  4. Hi! Thanks for stopping by my blog. I have been looking through yours and love that you have so much wisdom about raising boys. I have three myself (ages 11, 9, and 2). I’ll be back to visit.

  5. You mention about “as you watch the HP movies….” but have you read the books? Just curious, for I think that helps to truly form an opinion on the Rowling series. I tried to avoid reading them for so long, for many reasons. One was to avoid jumping on the Harry bandwagon and another was the opinions that you expressed. Being an educator of 9th graders at the time, I figured I should be familiar with what my students were reading. The books are wonderful, and my spirit never once felt in conflict while reading. So many spiritual elements are present, even if there are some magical elements within as well. I like Mika’s perspective on such, and I think that much of what we read or view can be positive or negative, mainly depending on how pervasive we let the material be in us. You can be “in it not of it.” I know HP was not the main intention of this post, but from most of the comments, this seems to be the portion that has struck a chord. Many of the YA books that have male protagonists tend to have them setting great moral examples (_The Giver_ first comes to mind). Although they may not be “Christian” by classification, they most certainly have elements that can be applied to a Christian life.

    • Yes, I read them all and enjoy them; however, there are times I’m struck by the similarities to Lewis and Tolkien’s books. Harry definitely struggles with rules, though. He seems to be quite oblivious to them. That’s somewhat dissconcerting. I’ll be posting a part 2 to the discussion either tomorrow or Saturday. Thanks for the books suggestions and the very pertinent comment:)

  6. Thank you for stopping by on my post. It gave me a great opportunity to come and check out your webpage. I just love the name “blue cotton memory”.

    I really enjoyed reading your post. I too enjoy HP but probably won’t let my kids read it. I agree that we should have equal time on the shelves and am frustrated with the reverse standard that seems to apply.

    I love it that you are reading such books like LOTR with your children and how you actually used it as a teaching tool.

    My son is only 2 so I am not there yet but you have given me food for thought.

    BTW.. one commenter mentioned Byzantium.. an excellent book.

  7. I can’t believe I’ve never found you before — I’m a boy Mom (four for me) and blogger as well. (Check out my blog at

    That’s a shame, about the boys not being able to receive “credit” for reading those historical books. We homeschool now, and I’m so glad that my boys have the opportunity to read what they want when they want.


  8. I read this post of yours slowly and didn’t want to miss a word. In the past, I would try to read as many blog posts as I could and found myself skipping over words to read fast. But I have realized it is not fair, and doesn’t do justice to the blog author. So I have decided that whenever I visit someone’s blog, I will be “truly present” and read the heart of the writer. That’s extending friendship with intellectual honesty and integrity. THen I leave an honest nd well thought out response And it works! It builds bridges. People want to know someone cares enough to listen. They matter. They have value.

    It is sad that Christian values are being taken out, but not the values of the Kingdom of Darkness, so subtly espoused by the Harry Potter series. Satan has blinded people so effectively, or so it seems. Something in me just refuses to give the enemy of our soul that much credit.

    God is still the sovereign One on the throne of the universe. There will be a day of reckoning, and a day of accounting, when everything will be evened out. And the true losers will be exposed.

    I also love TOlkien and CS Lewis. I first read Lewis and Tolkien 30 years ago when I was just a young CHristian attending the University of the PHilippines. So, how can it be the Rowlings would write to compete with Tolkien?

    I never even imagined their books could be made into movies. At that time, Star Wars was pretty fantastic in my opinion. So to my great delight, there were good Christian movie makers who were able to turn Narnia and Lord of the Rings into great movies!

    YOu may want to visit my blog friend RObert, the author of the blog Hand of God (look for his address on the sidebar of my blog under, Blogs Worth A Read). He has been writing a few posts on Lord of the RIngs.

    I pray your sons will have the heart to read the stories of the great men of God, about Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Joseph, Moses, Joshua, Gideon, Noah, John the Baptist, ELijah, Elisha, David, Peter, Paul, Jesus Christ… from the pages of the Bible. May they develop the love for reading about these great heroes of our faith, and may the HOly SPirit give them the anointing to let the inspired word of GOd sink deep into their hearts.

    We need men who will be willing to be raised up, and prepared as the en time Joel’s Army for the end time battle of the ages…

    You are at a very strategic point of history. We parents are. We are the mentors of the 30s and under generation (children born in 1978 up). There is a special call upon this generation, and we are to be their mentors… Awesome responsibility.

    May God continue to inspire your heart in mothering your sons. I love your heart.


  9. Wow! What a great post!

    I wanted to stop by and say Hello and thanks for stopping by my place! It’s always a lot of fun to see a new face!

  10. Hello again,

    I saw a book at the shop this weekend and thought of you! (Yes blogs fill up my entire waking life… no, not really).

    Anyway it’s called the Dangerous Book of Heroes, by Conn and David Iggulden who wrote the Dangerous book for Boys. Here’s the link because it has reviews – the has no reviews but you can get the book there.

    Evidently the Igguldens have written fiction too, but I have no idea what their values may be.

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